For the first 30 years of our marriage, Bob struggled with unwanted sexual behaviors and porn. I didn’t know how to handle it, so I just shut it out and tried to move on. We loved each other… but we were hurting. And over time, that hurt created distance.

In 2015, things began to shift. I finally realized I had options — in 2016 I asked Bob to get help, and thankfully he did. God provided a great local counselor, along with a workbook from Faithful and True & he got free. Even then, our marriage still wasn’t great. We were surviving, not thriving.

Then God opened a new door. Bob joined a program called Delight Your Marriage, and he started doing the work. I saw a real heart change in him for the first time. A year later, I joined the women’s program, too.

That was 4 years ago — and we can honestly say, our marriage has transformed beyond anything we imagined. Not because we’re special, but because we finally had practical tools that work.